Essays written by Queer Youth of Faith
The Four Questions (and Many More)
Growing up Jewish, my favorite holiday was always Pesach. Passover. Everyone else seemed to love Chanukah for the presents and dreidels or Rosh Hashanah for the sweet honey…
My Grandmother and Me
There is a moment of stillness in Midnight Mass on Noche Buena when I feel closest to God. The flickering candles, the scent of incense, and the hushed prayers…
Mitra’s Sanctuary
In Hindi, the formal word for friend is mitra. A mitra is more than an acquaintance. It signifies an emotional bond so deep that its meaning is impossible to translate…
Decolonizing My Identity
Since long before I was born, expectations and values of heteronormativity have been forced onto my people and community for centuries. Now, I am proud to be…
Playing Dress Up in the Men’s Section
Trauma. Often, when speaking about the connection between queerness and religion, the word trauma is brought into the mix…
Reclaiming Faith: Embracing Queerness and Religion
My relationship with faith has always been complex, serving as both a source of comfort and restriction. Growing up in a conservative Christian environment left me keenly aware of…
In the Name Of
In Catholicism, a name is sacred. It demands respect, a sign of dignity marked on their tongue with just a few syllables. We are taught in long, wooden pews…
Drag Shabbat
As the June sun set over Denver’s Cheesman Park, I stepped in front of the crowd, struck my pose, and began to pray. Baruch atah Adonai, Eloheinu melech ha-olam…
Praying for Love
On my desk sit a lesbian flag and a rosary; items often depicted in opposition, one begging for punishment, one for understanding. The flag is from my first pride parade…
A Queerly Small Faith
When I received my letterman jacket in my small, conservative town and wore around “James: 2:16-17,” many took their double takes and questioned my faith…
Paradiso e Casa
Paradiso or Heaven has always been my home. Like a lampshade of sorts, it has sat by my bed illuminating my thoughts. When I was a child, my overwhelming fears of life and death…
Woman Enough
When I first transitioned, my relationship with Judaism was the last thing on my mind. How would my religion even connect with my gender?…
Coexistence
For much of my life, I thought that my beliefs and my bisexuality could never coexist. Raised in a Christian faith that emphasized strict lines of right and wrong…
My Brother Told Me So
As a queer person of faith, navigating the intersection of my identity and my spirituality has been a journey enriched by both challenges and triumph…
Cut From the Same Cloth
Faith and queerness are often seen as two things that cannot intertwine, forcing the subject to choose between two integral parts of their identity…
The Silence to Hear
Adoration is the silence that makes me feel heard. In Christianity, Eucharistic Adoration takes place after Holy Communion, while others receive the Eucharist after you…
The Rainbow Lighthouse
The biggest religious gift I ever received was the privilege to be given no set religion. My mom, a Catholic, and my dad, a Jew, agreed to raise me without a religious upbringing…
Nectar in Hardship
Ksitigharba Bodhisattva is said to be one of pure nondiscriminating loving-kindness, a being of unending wisdom and compassion, a being of the Buddha’s teachings…

